Drop those rusty parts. And your act too.

Emoshit disease has been going around this past few weeks. Talk about relationship stuff, lovey dovey, I miss you, you miss me, break ups, not spending enough time etc...

Now it occurred to me that I have seen many people around me facing much troubles due to such unseen, irrational, uncontrollable factors. I know how it feels like folks. Been there, done that. Solution is, unless you have a good portion of self control for yourself, RELATIONSHIPS, NOT FOR YOU.

All your problems starts when you or your partner are in an unwilling relationship. You or he/she is doing it out of impulse. It is actually unnecessary to have relationships at such a young age. It is only just to satisfy your want, ego or desire. Now I have seen many people currently in relationships that is as false as a fake wall. Why is this so is because many of you people failed to establish grounds to your relationship. There is no intended outcome of your relationship and even if there is, you guys failed to appropriately think of how to reach it. 


It just comes to show how "serious" you guys really are in a relationship.


However, sometimes, it isn't your fault. It's your partner. Yeap...
He/she could be the underlying problem because they didn't plan or give much thought to it themselves. Relationship isn't a one sided thing, you need inputs for both side. And, those inputs HAS to be synced to one another. But, if you think about it, a reason why your partner failed to plan is actually because both of you failed to lay down the grounds to your relationship. None of you raised any awareness to the perimeter of your relationship. So in the end, the blame rest upon both of you. I call this, UNPROFESSIONAL EXECUTION.


Now, when you guys break up, don't blame anyone but yourself. Don't blame him/her BUT yourself. You did something leading to the break and what you COULD have done to save yourself was either not done or not even thought of (even more reason that you 2 SHOULD break up. Who likes incapable people right?). 


So both of you break up. Well... What to do? What to say? 


Do what you NEED to do. Seriously. If you read the above, a relationship isn't necessary. Carry on with your life. Think about the future. You'll never ever ever ever know what is in store for you. It could be better. It could come back. Only time, effort and patience will tell. Besides, most of you haven't or can't even handle your basic needs or general needs and you want to handle your wants and desire first. Stupid or what?


WAIT. WHAT?


Yeah. You heard me right. Most of you cannot even handle the basics which is to bring and up keep yourself and you even BOTHERED to have a relationship? What good is it that you can barely take total care of yourself but you want to for another person? Responsibility check fool. You can't even finish what's in front of you. Don't fucking ask for seconds. 


So now, we've revealed something else. Failed relationships are due to irresponsible people. They were irresponsible to begin with and because of that, brought themselves and their so called partner down. Lets say it again:

UNPROFESSIONAL EXECUTION


I haven't even started on people emoshitting. This only covers the pre-emoshitting process. Now for you emoshitters, cut the act, cut the crap. Seriously, no one in public and to some extent your private networks gives a shit or 2 on why you are emoing the fuck out of yourself. The only reason why some people bothered to entertain you is because you guys emoing around is unsightly. Do I like to see peole crying in my face or looking sulky? Hell no. It makes me uncomfortable. Fortunately for some of you, I actually bothered to come and help you in your position. If I was some random guy, I'd avoid the hell away from you. All your emoness is not needed at all and it takes up extra time and energy to achieve an outcome that normal people would call 'normal'. When you emo, you are not normal. I do not mean that it is not normal to emo. I mean that when you emo, you are not your normal self. Now, the first thing in my mind when I see such emoness besides the usual 'irresponsible' stereotype I have somewhat placed upon you, you guys are also not self sufficient. When you fall, you pick yourself up. You SHOULD be focusing on trying to get back to the normal world. The real world. Not crying your ass off, desperately trying to get the attention you want. I won't deny that most of you people would say "It takes time to heal". True. Only one problem.


IT TAKES TIME TO HEAL. YOU'RE WASTING TIME BY EMOING. FOOL.


You people emoing. Know this. The more you emo, the longer it will take you to heal and pick yourself up. If you actually focused and concentrate and put all your effort into it, you'd be good in a week or 2. But NOOOOOOO..... You have a lack of  self control. Well done.


Oh my God. Another revelation. Did you realise that failed relationships comprise of not only irresponsible people but also people lacking in self control? Doing things without proper thought and on impulse. Those people ought to get grilled. Or another way to say, you guys should


Fuck off and die.


Ok I have to end here. The post is getting too long. I actually wanted to post about my bicycle upgrades that I am eying but it seems that I have to do it next time. Nights folks. 


Coming up next: Upgrades (Drop those rusty parts II)